How to find joy amidst the chaos
An Aspirus psychiatrist’s tips for a mentally healthy holiday
12/11/2023
Jason Bombard, DO, Psychiatrist and Specialty Medical Director, Aspirus Behavioral Health
The holiday season,
often synonymous with joy and togetherness, can also be a source of significant
stress for many individuals. Jason Bombard, DO, Psychiatrist and Specialty
Medical Director at Aspirus Behavioral Health, addresses common stress factors and
provides practical strategies to enhance well-being during this festive time.
Holiday Stressors
Before packing the
social calendar and holiday to-do list with everything that comes your way, Dr.
Bombard emphasizes the importance of setting realistic expectations. "It's
OK to say no to certain things," he notes, advising individuals to establish
boundaries and alleviate self-imposed pressures. By recognizing limitations and
focusing on achievable goals, individuals can reduce stress and foster a more
enjoyable holiday experience.
Other prevalent
stressors during the holidays include financial concerns and the absence of
loved ones. “It’s a hard time for a lot of people. Go easy on yourself,” says
Dr. Bombard. "Being realistic about what you can and can't do is
crucial," says Dr. Bombard.
By acknowledging
these challenges, individuals can better navigate the season and mitigate
unnecessary stress.
Seek Help
“Stress is a natural
response to challenging situations, but it can become a serious concern if it
significantly affects behavior,” warns Dr. Bombard. It’s important to recognize
signs of escalating stress and seek timely help, particularly as seasonal
depression often coincides with the holiday season.
Distinguishing
between normal stress and situations requiring professional assistance is a key
aspect of Dr. Bombard's guidance. "Sometimes the two can combine to take
us from what would just be a normal stressful event to something that really
does require help," he explains, underscoring the importance of seeking
support when needed to ensure mental well-being.
Other Risk Factors
Different groups of
people react differently to holiday stress.
"When we're
inside a lot during the wintertime, we tend to not take care of our health as
much," says Dr. Bombard. For upper Midwesterners staying indoors during
harsh winter conditions, he recommends prioritizing physical health to avoid
worsening stress during this time.
Individuals with
pre-existing mental health conditions may also consider taking a more proactive
role in managing their well-being. Dr. Bombard emphasizes, "If you have an
underlying condition like depression or anxiety, those symptoms can certainly
be exacerbated pretty badly during the holidays," says Dr. Bombard.
By setting realistic
expectations, recognizing signs of escalating stress and seeking support when
necessary, individuals can navigate the holiday season with resilience and
well-being. If you or a loved one is having a hard time, don’t be afraid to ask
your doctor for help. To find someone in your area, visit www.aspirus.org/find-a-provider.
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